Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Calla Lillies in January

Just really quickly:

Oregon importer/shipper of white calla lillies in January:
http://flowersbulbs.com/white_calla_lilies.php

There's a calculator on the page.

Still looking...

Monday, June 25, 2007

Moons over Miam-mmi....

Honeymoon registry sites:
http://registrypalace.com/
  • Charges $10 per month
  • You can design to make it look better
  • No fees; everything is deposited into your paypal account
  • You don't have to choose a specific location/ activities

Others:
www.giftpile.com
www.honeyluna.com
www.honeyfund.com
There are pages to choose from if you google "honeymoon registry" It might give you some ideas. The above usually have spendy set-up fees, though.

Note: I would just like to point out how the Others are all named to evoke either dreamy fantasie or rampant greed. :) Good marketing.


Also, you may want to include "Experience gifts" in your registry list (aka not just honeymoon related) that you both can enjoy together after the wedding:
  • Sailing lessons (continuing education class from TCC)
  • Dance lessons (private or group) (Tango, Salsa, whatever)
  • Wine tours/tastings
  • Dinner cruise/rail (coming to Tacoma this year!)
  • Ticketmaster certificates
  • Symphony tickets
  • Hot air baloon rides

...I'm sure you get the idea.

Friday, June 22, 2007

decor ideas

Thom (I know that this isn't my area):
http://www.dinnerandamurder.com/cgi-bin/j/ljpro.cgi?21

This just seemed like something you'd appreciate.

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Something we can listen to while we talk: http://www.whro.org/home/1920s/
:)

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For decoration:

Maybe you'll find some inspiration from another couple's 1920 wedding (good pictures):
http://www.boudoirdoll.com/Wedding/
(hey, they already researched it, might save ya'll some work)

Dug up some info on forums (cut and paste items following):
"boston fern and house plant palms. They used these from the victorian days to the twenties as back ground decoration. A bonus is you can keep them afterwards. White, creme and shell pink flowers were used in the 20's, too."

"A central vase drapped in pearl beads and ostrich feathers could give a really dramatic result. The speakeasy was a phenomenon of the day and they normally had a lamp in the centre with fringing. That could be brought up to date by using fireproof lamp with candles instead. Mirrors were also big in the day and circular mirrors could be placed in the centre of the table with fragrant tea lights placed on top reflecting the light and aroma(very pretty especially during the evening) and a dramatic ploom of feathers in a slim vase in the middle. Another idea is using the archetecture of the deco era has a backdrop. "

(Mels says: something as simple as using a deco font and printing signs on tea-stained paper in the reception area for exits and restrooms could add to the illusion. We can also go to the aution next month -- they do a lot of estate sales and we could probably pick up some 1920's serving dishes, floral vases, etc. for a few dollars.)

"First thing that comes to mind for me is white, cream and soft pink flowers....gardenia, oriental lily, hand blown roses, queen annes lace, even some types of orchids (phalaenopsis, cymbids, etc.). The use of these flowers, or similar, paired with a type of fern called "Dagger Fern", which looks a lot like a Boston Fern but is hardier, would make a perfect combination for this particular look. Also try adding something fun.....pearls in the bottom of a clear vase, or adding ostrich feathers for height in larger arrangements."

I also read something about using wax flowers in decorations. http://www.angelfire.com/journal2/flowers/pcd21.html

Meetup

The core of the Planning Committee, checklists and drinks firmly in hand, will meet on Sunday afternoon Saturday evening.

We're not yet involving the Best Man, as he's about to leave for a month or two in Europe and has his mind on other things at the moment.

The Groom, for one, will feel much better once we have some gantt charts laid out. Of course, for the Groom this will consist of index cards held together by bits of brightly coloured yarn. The Bride is appalled.

No panic, just purpose. Prussians like plans, what can I say?

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

I was only kidding about the togas....

Alright, who's in charge here?

Thom: You are a good planner. There are seriously a TON of wedding planner checklists:
http://www.bridestuff.com/wedding_checklist.asp
http://weddings.theknot.com/weddingplanning/KnotSearch.aspx?submit.x=9&submit.y=9&quest=checklist

...google "catholic wedding checklist" and "wedding checklist." Sorry, they are mostly bride-related for some reason. Print lists out and write on them. Talk with Fran about which items you both want to add, and which things just aren't "You".

Designate one equal place in your home as the "Wedding Area". Keep all books, notes, checklists, etc. in this area, so you both can easily add to it and nothing has to be tracked down. I will gladly lend support in flaying the person alive who loses a list in their office.

...And I love you guys.

One thing that needs to go out soon is the "Save the Date" postcard. Sam and Cindy did the whole "3 months before" as reccommended, and with mail screwups and trying to secure travel and lodging.... well, let's just say I ain't gonna be in Bermuda in on the 30th, and I'm a tad miffed about it.

Seriously, make a list of everyone you want to invite, print it out and post it in the Wedding Area so either of you can place a checkmark to show that you have notified them, and mark out when they reply, and if they are or are not going to be there. A lot of the decisions that are going to have to be made depends on how many people are going to come. There is a huge monetary difference between 40 and 100 people. Call people to chat and feel them out. By all means, this does not replace the official invitation.

All three of us need to have a face-to-face this weekend, so we can discuss exactly what your budget is going to be, and exactly what type of traditions you want to follow (I'm not talking about the actual ceremony, but the lead up and wind down and getting everyone where they need to be, as well as certan quaintities such as rooting around for the garter afterwards and exit strategies).

Also, I don't really know what you guys want me to do, if you want me to just hang back and lend moral support or if you want me to find stuff or help or what. I want to talk it out in a dedicated conversation, so you two will end up with EXACTLY what you are envisioning, and I'm not constantly wondering if I am stepping on toes by trying to help.

Also, I just want to let you know that you shouldn't worry about time. Kaizen. Step-by-step, sip-by-sip, everything will happen. Everyone will have a good time, you will have a magical experience, and afterwards, you'll have some great photos and some other fun stuff we can talk about this weekend. If I'm not mistaken, you guys get all the fun, and I'm in charge of accepting all the stress.

So, Game On!

Francine Makes Links

Belize

Catering: Occasions
Catering: Gallucis
Catering: Snuffins
Catering:Taste of the Town

Monday, June 18, 2007

Thom Makes Lists, Part One

That's what he does. This is a high level list of Things That Need to Happen.

Time scales will come later. Almost certainly very soon.

Ceremony
  • rings
  • liturgy (programming and program)
  • garb (tux rental, bride, bridesmaids)
  • postcards, invites
  • Settimio & Rosetta (flights, lodging)
  • music (liturgical and otherwise)
  • assorted Church meetings (wedding coordinator, counsellor, music coordinator, organist)
  • Pre-Cana (retreat)
  • paperwork (Church and State)

Reception
  • location
  • catering
  • music
  • decor
  • CAKE!
  • transport for bride and groom

Honeymoon
  • location?
  • transport
  • lodging
  • etc.

What have we forgotten? What details do we need to fill in? Who's on first?

Geez, and then there are parties and rehearsals and...

Arrgh!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Fashion Ideas

All photos from 1927 and 1928. Click photos for larger images.





Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Alert!

The date of the wedding has been changed. Best to not ask why.

Friday, 25 January 2008 at 7:00PM

Church of Saint Patrick, Tacoma

Time to get organized!